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Post by onebentarrow on May 29, 2024 12:54:12 GMT -5
You all been on this journey with me from the beginning over 2 years ago and I need to inform you that I recieved a call from the nursing home this morning that my other half of 45 years was found decided at 527 this morning apparently passing in her sleep. As you know she had cancer. She NEVER had any pain from it, so that was good. She was still in a good mental state and could comprehend well. Her speech was short because of her weakness but understandable. I knew time was short but talking to all involved we were expecting 3 to 4 more weeks so it was kind of a surprise today. I have been there with her every day so I saw her yesterday with no indication of what was going to happen over night. I am doing well. I knew where we were at and had excepted it 3-4 months ago. All the leagle and financial stuff was taken care of ahead of time so no problems there.
You never want some one to go but with what was comming down the pike I will except this as a blessing for her and me. I have learned to look for and except blessings in places a lot of people miss and it has made life easier in some hard times,this being one of those times.
Thank you for listening and caring
Sencerely
Onebentarrow
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Post by whitetaildave24 on May 29, 2024 13:43:45 GMT -5
So sorry to hear this. You were there by her side through all of it and kept spirits high the best you could. Nothing more you could’ve done. You’re a good man.
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Post by Huntnfreak on May 29, 2024 13:52:21 GMT -5
Sorry to hear this!! As previously said….You’re a GOOD man for all the time spent by her side along this medical journey!! Prayers up for you!!
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Post by Woody Williams on May 29, 2024 14:07:07 GMT -5
I’m an so sorry to read this.
Even when you know it’s coming it still is hard .. The only thing one can hope for is a peaceful passing and it sounds like that is what happened. Take comfort in that.
No more suffering..
Now just cherish the many great memories.
May the good Lord’s peace and comfort be upon you and yours.
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Post by featherduster on May 29, 2024 14:41:11 GMT -5
This is hard to read, sorry.
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Post by deadeer on May 29, 2024 14:51:16 GMT -5
Peace be with you. Sounds like you have a handle on things at the moment. Hang in there.
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Post by marshallco on May 29, 2024 15:24:01 GMT -5
Prayers for you Onebentarrow. 45 years is a long time, and like the others have said, you were a good husband for being there for her.
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Post by huntsemall on May 29, 2024 15:24:09 GMT -5
So sorry to hear this, prayers to you and your family sir
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Post by wsky70 on May 29, 2024 15:40:27 GMT -5
So sorry for your loss, you were a great support for her, and she went peacefully. Can't get better than that. Many prayers to you and yours during this time. You are a Good Man OBA, never doubt that...SF Woody
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Post by jjas on May 29, 2024 16:01:56 GMT -5
So very sorry for your loss. Please know that others are thinking of you.
Jim
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Post by bowonlykindofguy1 on May 29, 2024 16:38:31 GMT -5
So sorry to hear this as well. I hope I can be as strong as you have been when it's my time to go through it. Thinking of you and your extended family.
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Post by freedomhunter on May 29, 2024 19:10:18 GMT -5
Sorry brother she is in a better place
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Post by duff on May 29, 2024 20:08:51 GMT -5
Sorry to read this.
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Post by Ahawkeye on May 29, 2024 20:18:34 GMT -5
Very sorry to hear of your wife's passing, it's never easy. I'll be praying for you and your family, I'm sure you already know you have a huge support group here who are always ready to talk.
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Post by jtkelly on May 29, 2024 20:34:52 GMT -5
My condolences to you and your family. I can't even imagine the hurt.
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Post by HighCotton on May 29, 2024 20:38:49 GMT -5
So sorry for your loss. I pray God's divine Mercy and Love will comfort you.
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Post by buckbuster13 on May 29, 2024 20:43:52 GMT -5
My condolences on your loved one passing away.
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Post by schall53 on May 29, 2024 21:37:44 GMT -5
Sorry for you losing your wife. No matter if you know it’s coming, it’s still a shock when it happens. Praying for you.
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Post by stevein on May 29, 2024 22:07:11 GMT -5
So sorry to hear this. I remember you two going on that trip to Florida. Hold on to the great times and remember them.
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Post by stevein on May 29, 2024 22:09:44 GMT -5
So sorry to hear this. I remember you two going on that trip to Florida. Hold on to the great times and remember them.
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